Yes you can

I received a comment to one of my blog posting that was itself worthy of postings - but I decided against reposting it; besides it gave me another idea for a posting. I figured I will in my own way tackle that ever burning question - why, why do men cheat? So here goes. X (because I have no idea how many I will come up with) reasons why men cheat:
1.) Because we can - you out on a lime notice an attractive woman, you say hey, she says hi; you have a few drinks chat it up for the night, and then the rest is a blur. When your memory begins to return you remember you'll fucked.
2.) Because we can - your woman pissed you off you decide to leave the house to clear your head; end up meeting someone willing to listen to you piss and moan about your distress - baddabing baddabang; you'll cutting.
3.) Because we can - you're actually in a relationship out of some misguided sense of obligation - you yearn for female companionship that you connect with.
4.) Because we can - she look like she could fuck well, she was willing and able.
5.) Because we can - let's be honest your relationship is crap - if you consider you have a relationship; you've been tolerating each other for the sake of the children.
6.) Because we can - you fucked her once and she could take the cock well - she begs for hard fuck; no holding back; no pushing you off when pressure start coming down, as a matter of fact she ask for more and cums hard when you give it to her harder.
7.) Because we can - she showed you a part of yourself you did not know you had and one thing lead to another; well you know that ended.

You get the point right - the circumstances that give rise to a man (or a woman for that matter) cheating may vary; a number of variables come into play. But ultimately it's because they can (unless it's sexual assault - it's voluntary); it's not overly complicated, infidelity is an equal opportunity transgression. Cheating boils down to choice, some choose to, some choose not too; don't judge and condemn because someone's choice is not your own - don't hold everyone to your expectations and standards.

On the other hand I agree that when you decide to make that committment to someone else, while you are not responsible for their happiness, you contribute to their happiness and unhappiness. More attention should be placed on ensuring the former.