Fate-fully departed

My grand mother on my mother's side died on Wednesday - 10 March 2010. I have not shed a tear, have had no swell of any emotion. She's gone from this world but she was never part of mine. I can't feel for someone I never knew. From the little I knew of her, I was not inclined to get to know her. I didn't even know her real name. if nothing else when one departs this terra firma, they should leave in good standing with most if not all their family. They say do not speak ill of the dead - but I pay attention to few of what "they say". It is sad to die and few if any of your family including your offspring feel no sense of loss. I pray I leave a better impression and legacy behind, that I will be missedn albeit not forever.